Kiss-mas Countdown
1, 2, 3, 4—romance knocking at your door!
Tonight, the glow of holiday lights sets the stage for something more meaningful than to-do lists and gift wrapping—a chance to reconnect with the person who matters most. Your
Slow down, savor the moment, and spark deeper connection through playful, romantic, and heartfelt experiences.
Picture this: the house is cozy, the world outside fades away, and you’re creating memories that make the holidays truly special. Whether it’s a shared laugh, a quiet conversation, or a kiss beneath the mistletoe, tonight is about celebrating us—the love that anchors every season.
Make this a night you’ll never forget. Your holiday connection starts now!
Sexy Scenarios
Optional Prayer and Verse for Your Marriage
Song of Solomon 8:6-7 (NIV)"Place me like a seal over your heart, like a seal on your arm; for love is as strong as death, its jealousy unyielding as the grave. It burns like blazing fire, like a mighty flame."
"Thank You for the gift of love and the joy of being together this season. Help us to slow down, prioritize each other, and reflect Your love in all we do. Strengthen our bond, guide us in patience and kindness, and help us create lasting memories. May our love always reflect Your grace and deepen as we grow together. In Jesus' name, Amen."
For partner "A"
Make your mistletoe stickers a playful invitation for kisses!
Choose one partner to place them anywhere in the house where you'd love to receive a kiss—on doors, mirrors, or even the fridge.
Whenever your partner spots a sticker, it’s their cue to find you for a sweet (or steamy!) kiss under the mistletoe.
The fun doesn’t have to end tonight! Leave the stickers up all season long and let the kisses keep coming. ❤️
Placement Ideas:
Above the front door
Near the fireplace
Bathroom mirror
Top of the stairs
Bedpost
Kitchen counter
Couch
Dining table
Closet door
Refrigerator door
Light switch
Picture frame
Dryer door
For partner "B"
Partner B kicks off the fun with the mistletoe!
Start by holding it above your hand or lips, inviting them to set the tone with a kiss—a gentle peck, a deep and passionate smooch, or maybe something more adventurous.
Next, hover the mistletoe over a spot on your body where you would like that kiss. Start sweet and innocent with places like her hand or forehead, then turn up the heat by teasing on her neck, collarbone, or beyond.
Take turns leading the game or get creative with your own ideas using this flirty little ornament.
This playful activity is a fantastic way to explore each other's preferences, experiment with new types of kisses, and create a connection that can seamlessly lead to more intimate moments. It’s a fun, sexy way to warm up to oral or simply discover what makes your partner melt.
Scenario 1 - Touch Me Sweetly
She steps into the room wearing her new lingerie, a gift that's as delightful to reveal as it is to explore.
Begin with a few connecting questions, letting the conversation spark intimacy and set a playful mood.
Next, reach for the Christmas Kiss lip balm and enjoy the sweetness of a slow, lingering kiss.
Take a pause to pamper each other with a sensual hand or foot massage using the Christmas Pine Lotion.
Let the pine-kissed scent and your gentle touch create a calming, intimate connection.
Let the moment build as you dive into the mistletoe tickle game.
Use your lube sachets to make this game even more fun and sexy! Let them enhance every touch and movement, allowing you both to fully enjoy the culmination of the evening in ways that bring you closer together.
Share a playful moment over Cozy Cookie Bites—the warm, chocolatey treat adding a dash of sweetness to the night.
Scenario 2 - Won't You Come Away With Me
* One partner should begin the night by setting up "Under the Mistletoe Part.
Start the night in a cozy space of your home. Pamper each-other with a nice hand or foot massage and discuss a few connecting questions.
When you are both relaxed, she slips into her new lingerie, slipping a robe over it for added mystery, or chooses a couple’s article of clothing for a playful touch.
He, on the other hand, wears a few articles of clothing—nothing too revealing yet, as they'll slowly strip them off throughout the night.
Now, whoever didn't place the mistletoe gets to take their lover on a search! At each stop, enjoy a sensual make out session.
After the kiss, it’s time for a little teasing: one of you removes a piece of the other’s clothing using only your mouth. Slow, sensual, and deliberate, you each reveal more of each other as you move from one sticker to the next, building anticipation with every step.
Continue the game until you’re both fully unwrapped. Once you've reached that point, the sticker you land is where the final connection happens, and you both go all the way. Utilize the included lube sachets if desired.
End the evening by feeding each other the cookies or enjoy them in a more playful way—eating them off each other’s bodies, making the night even sweeter.
Scenario 3 - Pick Your Pleasure
Game: "Pick Your Pleasure" (Spicy Edition)
How to Play:
- Partner A's Role: Partner A chooses 10 actions below to correspond to each number 1-10 . For example, they choose which action goes with 1, which goes with 2, and so on until they have all 10 actions assigned to a number.
- Partner B's Role: Partner B then picks a number, and the couple performs the action assigned to that number. After completing each action, Partner B picks another number, and the process continues until all 10 actions have been completed.
For example:
- Partner A: "I choose 3!"
- Partner B: "Alright, Chocolate Chip Cookie Feeding, here we go!" (Partner A feeds Partner B a cookie, and then they switch)
- Partner A: "I choose 7!"
- Partner B: "Cookie Chase, you're it!" (Partner A places a cookie on their body, and Partner B kisses their way to it)
The couple works through the list, creating an intimate and fun connection as they explore each action!
Sexy Actions (for Partner A to choose to assign numbers 1-10):
Mistletoe Tease: Trace the felt mistletoe over your partner's lips, neck, and chest, building anticipation with each feather-soft touch.
Mistletoe Moment: Stand under the mistletoe and share a deep, lingering kiss, pausing to whisper something sexy before pulling your partner in for another passionate kiss.
Christmas Pine Lotion Sensual Massage: Warm the Christmas pine lotion between your hands, then slowly glide your hands down your partner’s back, lingering on their spine and lower back. Gradually move down their legs, taking extra care to massage their thighs in a slow, erotic manner.
Chocolate Chip Cookie Seduction: Feed your partner a chocolate chip cookie, slowly breaking off small pieces and placing them on their lips. Whisper something sensual as you do, and let the crumbs fall softly, then kiss their lips, savoring the taste of sweetness mixed with desire.
Lip Balm Kiss: Apply the Christmas kiss lip balm on your lips and then kiss your partner deeply, letting your lips glide slowly over theirs. Make it a passionate kiss that lingers, allowing the balm to leave a soft, irresistible taste behind.
Mistletoe Feather Play: Lightly drag the mistletoe across your partner’s neck, chest, and inner thighs, teasing their skin. Move it slowly to areas where they are most sensitive, creating tension and excitement with every touch.
Pine Lotion Touchdown: Use the Christmas pine lotion to massage your partner’s feet, slowly moving your hands up their calves and thighs. Let your touch become more intimate as you get closer to their most sensitive spots, making every motion feel like a slow, delicious tease.
Cookie Chase: Place a chocolate chip cookie on your partner’s chest or stomach, then kiss your way to it, letting your lips softly brush over their skin as you move closer. Once you "reach" the cookie, feed it to them sensually.
Lube Seduction: Open the lube sachets and apply it to your partner’s skin, starting with their neck or inner thighs, gliding your fingers over their most sensitive spots. Let the smooth sensation turn into a passionate exploration, teasing and touching in ways that build up both excitement and desire.
Mistletoe Tease (Alternate Version): Slowly drag the mistletoe over your partner's lips, tracing their jawline, then run it lightly down their chest and stomach, creating goosebumps wherever it touches. Stop just before you reach a more sensitive area, building the anticipation.
Oral Tease: Use the lube to lightly coat your partner's intimate areas. Start by kissing and licking around the area, making each touch more intense as you explore. The smooth, slippery feel of the lube adds a playful edge to oral pleasure.
Hand Play Exploration: Apply the lube to your partner’s intimate areas and use your hands to explore their body. Slowly move your hands lower, teasing them with soft, caressing strokes as you let the lube heighten the sensation.
Lube Play with Kisses: After applying the lube to your partner's intimate areas, trace it with your lips and tongue. Kiss and lick the areas where the lube has been applied, making sure to give attention to each part, heightening the pleasure with each kiss.
Lube Up for Slow Play: Apply the lube to your partner’s intimate areas and take your time slowly kissing and stroking them, enjoying every slick sensation as you move from their neck to their chest and all the way down to their legs, creating tension with each touch.
Connecting Questions
What is a Christmas memory from your childhood that shaped how you view the holiday season, and how can we create similar memories together?
During the busy holiday season, what is one way we can slow down and prioritize our connection amid all the festivities?
How do you feel most loved and appreciated during the holidays, and what can I do this season to make you feel that way?
As we reflect on the year, what is something we’ve overcome together that you’re proud of, and how can we celebrate that victory this Christmas?
What is something I do during the holidays that brings you a sense of warmth and comfort, and how can we make more of those moments this year?
The holidays can be stressful—what’s one way we can support each other emotionally during this season?
As we look to the future, what holiday tradition do you want to build together as a couple, and why does it matter to you?
In what ways do you feel closer to me during the holiday season, and how can we keep that sense of connection alive throughout the year?
What is one thing you’re grateful for in our relationship this year, and how can we express that gratitude to each other during this holiday season?
What’s one personal wish or dream you have for us in the new year, and how can we start working toward it together this holiday season??
Item List
EveryLove Matching Lingerie
Felt So Good Mistletoe
Christmas Pine Lotion
Mistletoe Stickers
Lube Sachets
Christmas Kiss Lip Balm
Chocolate Chip Cookies
Beyond the Box
Go beyond your intimate date night this month by utilizing the Weekly Marriage Check-In.
It will help you and your partner align your priorities and avoid potential roadblocks throughout your week. We recommend having a weekly meeting to fill out your sheet together!