The night begins with a simple invitation—one that builds connection before anything else. Settle in close, facing each other, and take turns answering a question, letting your words draw you deeper into the moment.

• What’s one way I made you feel loved this week?
• Where do you love to be touched that I might not give enough attention to?
• What’s one thing I do that turns you on instantly?

As you share your answers, let your touches mirror your words. Start slow—fingertips grazing along each other’s forearms, tracing lazy circles on a wrist, a palm, the inside of a knee. Take your time exploring the places that build anticipation: the dip at the base of the neck, the curve of the hip, the space just above the waistband. Let your hands learn what makes your partner sigh, what makes them lean in just a little closer. The goal isn’t to rush—it’s to savor the feeling of their body waking up under your touch.

When she’s ready, she steps away, returning in her lingerie, the delicate scent of In Bloom mist settling around her like an unspoken promise. He pulls her in, lips just barely brushing her ear as he murmurs exactly what he’s thinking in this moment—what he wants, what he craves.

Before diving deeper, introduce the clitoral balm with care. This silky formula increases blood flow, heightening every sensation where it’s applied. Since sensitivity varies, it may be best for her to test a small amount on a less sensitive area—maybe the inside of her wrist or along her inner thigh—to feel its warming, tingling effect. Once she’s ready, he can use it to enhance her pleasure, applying it gently, using slow circles with a flat palm, kissing her anywhere she wants to be adored.

From here, she leads the way… and the night is theirs to savor.

Tonight is all about discovery—exploring new sensations, deepening intimacy, and savoring every reaction along the way. As she steps away to slip into the La Fleur three-piece set and stockings, he prepares the space, misting the sheets with In Bloom, letting the sensual scent settle around them like an unspoken promise of what’s to come. He takes a moment to familiarize himself with the vibrator—testing the different settings, feeling the pulse of each vibration against his palm, imagining how it might feel against her body. The goal isn’t to rush but to approach the experience with curiosity and confidence.

Once she returns, they settle in close, popping a grapefruit gummy bear onto their tongues, letting the sweet, citrusy taste linger as they talk—sharing thoughts on what might feel good, any nerves about trying something new, and what excites them most about the night ahead. This moment of connection creates safety, trust, and an open space to explore without pressure.

With her permission, he holds the vibrator in his hand and begins with gentle, teasing touches on her body—starting with areas that feel comfortable, like her neck, shoulders, abdomen, and inner thighs. The goal is to let her feel the sensation, to grow used to its rhythm, and to see what makes her shiver with anticipation.

Slowly, he lets the vibrations travel lower, tracing the toy over her panties. He watches her body react, adjusting the speed and pressure accordingly. If the sensation feels too intense, he softens his approach—placing the vibrator further back on his palm and letting the subtle vibrations transfer through his fingertips, gliding along her skin with a featherlight touch.

If she feels comfortable, she can take control—holding the vibrator herself, guiding his hand with hers, or directing him where it feels best. Together, they explore, letting the vibrations tease along the labia, circling the clitoris without touching it directly at first, allowing anticipation to build until the moment feels right.

As their confidence grows, so does the pleasure. They continue experimenting—finding the perfect setting, incorporating the clitoral balm to enhance sensation, or adding a compatible lube to create an even silkier glide. The possibilities are endless, and tonight is about indulging in whatever feels best for her.

And when the moment takes them further, they follow the pleasure wherever it leads.

(Note: Be sure to clean the vibrator before and after use. Due to its size and shape, we do not recommend this vibrator for internal use.)

She wears the Le Fleur and stockings and sprays In Bloom. They warm up however they wish or jump straight into using the vibrator. They can use it exactly how they know they like it, or try these suggestions to mix things up:

Here are some creative ways to incorporate it into your night, including options that allow him to enjoy the vibrations just as much as she does.

1. The Slow Tease

Before diving into direct stimulation, use the vibrator as part of your foreplay. Glide it over her body, tracing slow patterns along her collarbone, down her spine, across her inner thighs—places that build anticipation without immediately going for the most sensitive areas. The teasing itself can be just as intoxicating as the pleasure that follows.

2. Over Her Panties, Between Her Thighs

For a gentler start, let her close her legs and press the vibrator between them. The pressure and warmth of her own body can help ease her into the sensation while still feeling completely in control. He can kiss and touch her while she enjoys the subtle, indirect pleasure.

3. Vibrations During 69

When they’re pleasuring each other, the vibrator can heighten her experience without distracting from the moment. While his mouth and tongue explore her, he can hold the vibrator against her clitoris or along the outer labia, combining vibration with oral pleasure. If she enjoys the feeling of deep, full-body sensations, he can also glide the vibrator along her thighs or stomach while she takes him in her mouth. This keeps her entire body engaged while allowing them both to build toward pleasure together.

4. Vibrations During Penetration

Adding a vibrator while he’s inside her can amplify the experience for both partners. He can hold the vibrator against her clitoris while they move together, letting her feel the combination of internal fullness and external stimulation. Depending on the position, she can also control the vibrator herself, adjusting pressure and speed to find what feels best. If she’s on top, she can grind against the vibrations while riding him, creating waves of pleasure that sync with their rhythm.

5. Using His Hand as a Buffer

For those who find direct vibration too intense, he can place the vibrator in his palm and use his hand as an extension of it. As he strokes her, his fingers will transfer the vibrations, creating a softer, more organic sensation that she can ease into at her own pace.

6. Between Their Bodies in Different Positions

• Missionary: If he places the vibrator between them, the vibrations will not only stimulate her but also send waves of sensation through him with each movement.
• Spooning: He can hold the vibrator against her from behind, using his free hand to explore her body or control the intensity of the vibrations.
• Riding (Her on Top): She can hold the vibrator against herself while controlling the rhythm, or he can hold it for her to create a completely hands-free experience.

7. Edging and Playing with Control

If she enjoys anticipation, he can use the vibrator to bring her close to climax, then pause and let the pleasure subside before building it back up again. This teasing game, called edging, can create a stronger and more explosive orgasm when she finally lets go.

8. Double the Sensation: Clitoral Balm + Vibrations

Once she’s comfortable, try using the clitoral balm before bringing in the vibrator. The balm increases blood flow and sensitivity, making every touch and vibration feel even more intense. Let her guide the experience, adjusting the intensity as she gets used to the amplified pleasure.

9. Playing with Different Settings Together

Make a game out of experimenting. Have her close her eyes while he cycles through different settings, asking her to tell him which one feels best. Or, he can hand her the controls and let her adjust while he focuses on pleasuring her in other ways.

After exploring each other’s bodies and deepening your connection in new ways, take a moment to unwind. Share a few grapefruit gummy bears, letting the sweet, citrusy flavor linger as you talk through some of the included connecting questions. Reflect on what you both enjoyed, what surprised you, and what you might want to explore next time. This is your time to slow down, savor the intimacy you’ve built, and enjoy the closeness that lingers long after the pleasure.

Pleasure is all about tuning in—paying attention to her body, her breath, her reactions, and adjusting as you go. Here are some ways to make her experience as mind-blowing as possible:

1. Build Anticipation First

Before diving straight in, focus on teasing. Light, intentional touches across her inner thighs, hips, lower stomach, and even her breasts can heighten desire. Kiss and nibble at sensitive areas, whisper in her ear, let your hands explore, but don’t rush—let her body fully awaken.

2. Use the Right Kind of Pressure

The clitoris is incredibly sensitive, so lighter isn’t always better. Instead of using just the tips of your fingers, try slow, broad strokes with a flat palm first, applying gentle but consistent pressure. As she gets more aroused, you can gradually increase intensity based on her responses.

3. Experiment With Movements

Variety keeps things exciting. Try these techniques to see what she enjoys most:

• Circular motions: Use slow, deliberate circles around the clitoris before moving to more direct stimulation.
• Side-to-side strokes: Instead of focusing on up-and-down movement, try gently stroking side to side. This can be a game-changer.
• Start wide, then focus in: Trace along the outer lips and gradually make your way to the most sensitive areas.
• Add rhythmic pauses: Stop for a second, kiss her, whisper something in her ear, then resume. It builds tension and makes the release even better.

4. The Magic of the Clitoral Balm

Once she’s warmed up, apply a small amount of the clitoral balm and let it work its magic. This enhances blood flow and sensitivity, making every touch more intense. Give her time to adjust to the sensation before continuing, and ask her how it feels so you can guide your movements accordingly.

5. Sync With Her Reactions

Her breath will tell you everything—when it gets heavier, when she moans or arches her back, take note. If she’s moving against you, match her rhythm. If she slows down, follow her lead.

6. Let Her Take Control If She Wants To

Some women love guiding the experience—whether it’s telling you what feels best, showing you with her own hands, or adjusting the angle. Encourage her to take the lead if she wants to, and don’t be afraid to ask what feels best.

7. Keep Going After She Climaxes

Many women experience aftershocks of pleasure right after orgasm, so instead of stopping immediately, try keeping your touch light and gentle to draw out the sensation. Hold her, kiss her, and let the moment linger.

Most importantly—make sure she knows that tonight is all about her pleasure. When she feels fully seen, desired, and adored, the experience will be just as unforgettable for both of you.

Adding a vibrator into the mix isn’t just about extra stimulation—it’s about creating an even more immersive, toe-curling experience for her. Used the right way, it can amplify pleasure, build anticipation, and help her reach orgasm more easily and intensely. Here’s how to introduce it in a way that keeps the connection strong and makes the moment unforgettable.

1. Start with Teasing

Before going straight for the most sensitive spots, use the vibrator as part of the buildup. Start by gliding it over her body—her inner thighs, hips, lower stomach, even the sides of her neck. Let the vibrations hum against her skin, keeping the pressure light and playful. This slow teasing builds anticipation and makes the deeper pleasure even better.

2. Let Her Lead

Since every woman’s sensitivity is different, let her explore the vibrator first. She can place it against her wrist, inner thigh, or anywhere she feels comfortable to get used to the sensation. Ask her what she likes—if she prefers steady pressure, gentle pulses, or teasing flickers. Let her show you how she enjoys it most, and take your cues from there.

3. Pair It With Your Touch

Instead of relying solely on the vibrator, use it alongside your hands and mouth. Try holding it against her while kissing her neck or running your hands down her body. You can also use your fingers alongside the vibrations—stroking, pressing, and moving with her rhythm to build a multi-layered experience.

4. Play With Different Speeds and Pressure

Start with the lowest setting and gradually increase intensity based on her reactions. Some women love a steady vibration, while others prefer teasing pulses. Move the vibrator in small circles or press it firmly against her with slow, deliberate movements. If she’s close to climax, keeping the motion steady can make her release even stronger.

5. Explore Different Positions

Using the vibrator doesn’t mean you have to stay in one position. If she’s lying back, you can hold it against her while she grinds into it at her own pace. If she’s on top, she can control how and where she uses it. The key is to let her body guide the experience while you stay fully present, watching, touching, and responding to her every move.

6. Keep the Connection Intimate

Some men worry that using a vibrator will replace their role in their partner’s pleasure, but the reality is, it’s just another tool to heighten the experience together. Keep eye contact, whisper what you love about watching her like this, or hold her hand while she lets go. Your presence is what makes the moment electric.

7. Ride the Waves of Pleasure

Once she reaches orgasm, don’t rush to turn off the vibrator. Keep it lightly against her, letting the aftershocks roll through her body. Some women can even have multiple orgasms with continued stimulation—so if she’s open to it, encourage her to stay in the moment and see where the night leads.